Farooq Kperogi Although I absolutely should have foreseen it, I honestly didn’t anticipate the profoundly painful consequences that my July ...
Farooq Kperogi
Although I absolutely should have foreseen it, I honestly didn’t anticipate the profoundly painful consequences that my July 16 Facebook update titled “Aisha Buhari, Divorce, and Forgiveness Claim” would have on former First Lady Mrs. Aisha Buhari and people closest to her.
It’s one of the worst and cruelest lapses of judgement I have ever committed in my life, and it has been a source of unfathomable personal anguish for me these past few days.
My source, whose integrity is unimpeachable, insists the information is accurate, but never intended for it to become public. Going public with the information was an error on my part, as not every well-sourced information is for public consumption.
On the other side, Alhaji Sani Zorro, former SSA to the First Lady on Public Affairs, whom I hold in the highest esteem, has reached out to question the accuracy of my claims.
I will not contest the particulars and veracity of the information with Alhaji Sani who conveyed the former First Lady’s position that her marriage was intact. After all, as the late MKO Abiola memorably said, no one can give you a haircut in your absence.
Clearly, Mrs. Buhari herself has the ultimate authority and right to define the status of her marriage with her late husband. Her truth should be respected as supreme, whatever other facts may exist.
Moreover, the truth of this information is now far less significant than the hurt my disclosure of it has caused. I shouldn’t have shared it publicly. Period. Doing so violated every moral and ethical principle I cherish and uphold. But it shows I am only human, an imperfect human.
I realize it might be impossible for many to believe (except those who truly know me) that I acted without malice, ulterior motives, or external influence. But I sincerely did not intend to harm Mrs. Buhari or execute any personal vendetta.
To Mrs. Aisha Buhari, I offer my heartfelt and unreserved apology for the needless and deeply regrettable hurt I have caused. I am truly sorry.
A rare and sincere act of accountability. Prof. Farooq’s apology shows true integrity, empathy, and courage to admit wrong. In a world full of excuses, his humility is both powerful and healing.👏🏽 #Respect #Accountability #FarooqKperogi
ReplyDelete"O our Lord! Do not condemn us when we forget or err... and do be forbearing to us, forgive us, be merciful to us, for You are our Patron; then help us against the disbelieving folks" —The Cow (2):286.
ReplyDelete"And hasten to forgiveness from your Lord as well as a Garden the width thereof spanning the heavens and the earth, prepared for the God-fearing" —Imran (3):133.
"And those who when they committed an abomination or wronged themselves/one another, remember God and then seek forgiveness for their sins; who else forgives sins other than God? And (those) would never deliberately/knowingly repeat that which they had done" —Imran (3):135.